Uncertainty is rife in life. Certainty is not as common place but we prefer it in our lives. I am wondering in my own way just how common place uncertainty and certainty play a role in our sexuality.
I know there are better things to ponder but this topic has been spinning around in my mind for a while now. I decided to just write about it and put it out there to see if I get any sort of response.
Sometimes uncertainty can really spice things up in the bedroom. I am sure that it can also be a double-edged sword but pushing boundaries has an appeal. It’s uncertainty that can be a catalyst to push us further on. It can help us discover who we are and exactly how our likes and dislikes are discovered. It can scare you or make you feel more challenged.
Certainty can seem more boring in comparison to uncertainty. You know what you will be getting. Yet certainty has security to it since you know exactly what you will be getting. You know for certain that you are desired and wanted.
Maybe I am playing devil’s advocate here. I am just pondering and wondering about the appeal of uncertainty compared to certainty. I know my preference but I am just curious what others out there think. There are certain times when uncertainty spurs me on and certainty keeps me safe.
What are you thoughts on certainty and uncertainty?